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Forgiving Yourself for Love’s Missteps

Forgiving Yourself for Love’s Missteps

Posted on January 13, 2020 by Felicie Kalais

Are you type of personal can is able to easily forgive the mistakes of others, yet you are quick to vilify yourself?  One area in life that people can be hardest on themselves in when love seems elusive.  On the road to finding Prince Charming, its natural that you will have to kiss A LOT of frogs!  So, why then are you so hard on yourself when you fall for someone unworthy of your affection?

When someone arrives for the first date, they aren’t inclined to tell you of their shortcomings.  Instead, its all about putting the best foot forward.  First dates are all about good intentions and have a great evening out.  To understand if you will be a match for each other you have to at first try.  And, yes, not every first date will wow, or someone first impressions will be deceiving.  You are not to blame for that, it’s just the way of life.

To honestly, give some a fair chance, you will have to put sincere effort into the ordeal.  You will have to risk being vulnerable, adventurous and brave.  Tell yourself that even if this dynamic doesn’t work out for you, it will allow you to be one step closer to the love of your life.

You will have to trust in people and the process.  Sometimes a particular person will be unworthy of your trust and cause you some heartache.  Although this is painful, it’s a learning opportunity that helps you refine who and what you are looking for in an ideal partner.  Think about how much emptier your life would be if you didn’t put yourself out their and meet new people or explore new experiences.  Maybe you won’t find your next big romance, but you may meet some great friends or discover some cool new spot along your journey to love.

Forgive yourself when bad dates derail you.  It takes time to understand who is worthy of guarding your heart, emotions, feelings and spirit.  Again, at times the wrong person will see glimpses of issues you are currently struggling with in this life.  Sometimes they might use these shortcomings against you in the guise of helping themselves.  Or sometimes people will be uncomfortable with complex emotions or feelings and suddenly drift away from you, leaving you without proper closer.  But, for all these hardships, there will be people who will be honored to treasure your unique gifts and champion your goals.  There will be people worthy of loving you and gratefully reciprocate your affection.  They will be able to see the wholeness of you and value your spirit.  Forgive yourself for loving wrong people, because they will teach you how to better love the right ones.

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